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My niece (D's sister's daughter) is turning 12 soon, and I would like to give her some books (probably 2-3) as a present. (This isn't mandatory -- something crafty and interesting could work too.)

Any books I give her must not contain sex, should not be overly dark (no teenage dystopias yet), and probably should have no gay relationships, especially front and center, although I might be able to get away with subtext. (I know. It is what it is. In a couple of years I may be able to push that line.) She is not particularly precocious or geeky, but is willing to read fantasy; her favorite book about six months ago was Keeper of the Lost Cities, which I haven't read very much of, but at least the part I read has a Very Special Heroine who is the Chosen One of Faerie. (Part of my Duty as an Aunt, of course, is to encourage this -- several years ago I had what I felt was a terrifying conversation with her mom, who was like "what's the point of this fantasy stuff anyway and why should my child be reading this??" and who was perhaps not expecting my impassioned defense of same -- but I also am open to non-SFF suggestions). I have previously given her Summer in Orcus, various Diana Wynne Jones, Dealing with Dragons, The Book of Three, The Goose Girl, Wrinkle in Time, Princess Academy, and So You Want to Be a Wizard. (All of these except Orcus, and maybe Wizard, are probably too young for her now.) I also thought about Wizard of Earthsea or Tombs (which I read at just about this age) but I don't think she would like them that much. (She's read Narnia.) I thought of a couple of things she might like with male protagonists (The Thief, Ender's Game, Hobbit) but I'd rather like to give her at least one book with a female protagonist.

These should also be books that I like, or at least don't feel weird about giving as a gift even if I haven't read it :P

I feel like this shouldn't be hard! It's partially because I've given her a lot of my favorites already, lol, and partially because E reads on about a 9-year-old-boy level (by which I mean, she doesn't like girly books and doesn't care about books with female protagonists at all) so my 12-year-old girl book knowledge is extremely dated (and when I was that age, I was reading... a lot of stuff, much of which didn't fall into 12-year-old Girl Book territory anyway). Also I feel more pressure than I normally would to give her something she'd like, for perhaps obvious reasons. It doesn't need to be a book she will love but it does need to be something she will like enough to finish.

Help?

(Also... I am miffed because I figured out the perfect book, Perilous Gard -- but it is out of print. How can it be out of print?? Hmmph.)

Date: 2020-04-07 06:05 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] hamsterwoman
I'm trying to remember what L was reading at 12. I remember at some point there was Kristin Cashore's Graceling (which I didn't like very much as an adult, but do think is a pretty good YA book), but I think that's too much sex.

I asked L and she said Percy Jackson (and its gazillion sequels), but male protagonist, and the Pseudonymous Bosch books. ETA: If spy stuff is of interest, L also recommends Ally Carter's Gallagher Girls series (I haven't read them myself, but L says she doesn't think therewas sex in it or gay relationship).

Would the Pratchett Tiffany Aching books be too young at his point? I enjoyed them as an adult, but could see a preteen being turned off.

Both I and O enjoyed Scott Westerfeld's Leviathan and sequels (there are boy and girl-dressed-as-boy co-protagonists), and I think they'd work for a 12-year-old OK?
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Date: 2020-04-07 06:24 am (UTC)
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Checking on Amazon whether these are available in English, I find:

Michael Ende: The Neverending Story. Male protagonist, but still one of my most dearly beloved stories ever. (Also: different from the movie, which is based on the first half and upset the author a lot.)


Michael Ende: Momo. Female protagonist. I love it a lot as well. Our heroine saves the world with the help of a turtle.


Astrid Lindgren: Anything, really, but surely Pippi Longstocking is the ultimate non-girly girl?

Erich Kästner: Emil and the Detectives. Was as I see illustrated by none other than Maurice Sendak in the English edition. (Lots of boys, only one girl, but there's a reason why this is one of the most beloved books in Germany from 1929 (when Kästner published it) to this day, why even the Nazis who put everything else Kästner had written into the fire in 1933 waited till 1936 with Emil, and why Kästner was for years the only German author being pubished in Isreal despite not having left Germany during the Third Reich.)

Emil Kästner: The Flying Classroom. This one I personally like even more than Emil, and not just because one of the many film versions was shot in my hometown. Again, mostly boys, but it's a great friendship story while also making the point that sometimes you have to stand up not to your enemies but to your friends. Excellent hurt/comfort, too.

Ottfried Preussler: The Little Witch. Preussler is another author whom I could rec almost the entire ouevre of, but here I'm limiting myself to two again. This one has a rebellious heroine and a glorious moment of table turning on the big witches ostracizing her for a showdown.

Ottfried Preussler: Krabat. Best Preussler ever. They who don't love Krabat do not exist, I declare. This one is fairy tale style dark - our hero gets contracted to a wizard in a Faustian pact, after all - but not in a dystopian way, and the happy ending is earned.


(I read a lot of books with female protagonists at age 12, but these do not fit your criteria; they were mostly historical novels, and there was some sex in them. Nothing explicit, but there was sex.)

ETA: Just recalled something more recent, both by Neil Gaiman: "Coraline" (female hero and female villain plus a cool cat; like Krabat it gets fairy-tale dark but not dystopic), and "The Graveyard Book" (male main character, but plenty of interesting female characters, and among so many other things, it's a clever homage to The Jungle Book. (Human baby ends up with ghosts, vampires, werevolves instead of animals in the jungle, gets raised by same, has to deal with predator arch nemesis still wanting him dead, outwits same but also has to deal with being between two worlds as he grows up).
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Date: 2020-04-07 09:54 am (UTC)
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Oooh, Krabat. Krabat is wonderful. The protagonist is male, but it's so good.

Date: 2020-04-07 10:49 am (UTC)
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Agreed on Momo and Neverending Story! Both have a good amount of whimsy and surface fantasy with a lot of underpinning philosophy.

'd recommend Tanith Lee's Unicorn Trilogy. Female protagonist, no sex, and a good combination of whimsy and insight. First book involves our heroine striking out on her own and coming to terms with difficult relationships with her separated parents; second book is a little darker, dealing with war, but not grimdark; third book is much fluffier again. But the first book stands alone pretty well.

Not a female protagonist, obviously, but would it be a good age for The Dark Is Rising? Or is it too dark? Similarly, how about The Darkangel Trilogy? (I'm trying to remember if that had any overt sex - get a second opinion).

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For Astrid Lindgren, I loved Ronia the Robber's Daughter when I was younger.

Date: 2020-04-07 06:35 am (UTC)
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The Time and Space of Uncle Albert (Russell Stannard) is one that I very much enjoyed at about that age. It explains the theory of relativity by fictionalising Einstein's thought experiments (so there are spaceships!) CTony assures me that it is still in print - he has just bought a copy for his niece. It's a lot of fun!

Date: 2020-04-07 08:14 am (UTC)
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My own 12 year-old daughter is a big Lemony Snicket fan but not into fantasy so this may not be useful. I've mainly been trying to find her more mysteries in slightly weird and historical settings:

Robin Stevens - The Wells & Wong series. Murder Most Unladylike is the first one. Girls' school stories with solving crime. But Daisy has a crush on a girl in book 7 so...

Chris Ridell - The Ottoline series (which is for slightly younger readers) and the Goth Girl series.

Katherine Woodfine - The Mystery of the Clockwork Sparrow (and others)

Joan Aiken - The Wolves of Willoughby Chase and series. None of mine have liked these but I did.

Hilary McKay - The Casson family series starting with Saffy's Angel but they might be meant for slightly older. The later ones about Rose skew younger oddly. Not mysteries, chaotic family story. Her Binny series is good too. In the first one of those it is clear to the adult reader that the older sister has just had (happy, loving) sex for the first time but Binny herself is oblivious.

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Date: 2020-04-08 09:39 am (UTC)
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JOAN AIKEN. They are the best.

Date: 2020-04-07 08:24 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] zdenka
I don't think I read a lot of YA when I was the appropriate age, but I took a YA literature class when I was in library school, and this involved reading a bunch of stuff and asking people for recs. The tag is here if you think you might find it useful:
https://zdenka.dreamwidth.org/tag/ya+lit

Some things I remember liking:

-Enchantress from the Stars by Sylvia Louise Engdahl
-Sorcery and Cecilia by Wrede and Stevermer
-something by Eva Ibbotson (I've read a few books by her and they're generally charming, though some of them have darker historical stuff in the background)

Caveat that I don't have a good sense of what's appropriate for kids of what age, so please filter through your own judgement.

Date: 2020-04-07 10:51 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] morbane
On the fantasy side for Eva Ibbotsen, I think Which Witch is a pretty delightful read and definitely in the right age range - maybe even slightly young for 12.

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Date: 2020-04-07 08:58 am (UTC)
From: [personal profile] allmyfansquees
Hi - I second the rec for the Tiffany Aching series by Pratchett. I feel it reads to a similar level as Orcus, but the second and later books (the first a bit less) deal with heavier social issues around the edges. (They're also riotously funny.)

A lot of focus on the kind of heavy lifting it takes to live in a community where people don't always agree with each other and how you make that work anyway. (Sounds like that might be useful to your niece down the road, maybe?) They're well-plotted, easy to read, and don't pull punches regarding the work it takes to be a decent person. (Plus, funny!)

Date: 2020-04-07 11:50 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] mildred_of_midgard
Ella Enchanted comes to mind, if she hasn't read that already. Darn, I see [personal profile] selenak just ETAed to add Coraline and The Graveyard Book since I started writing my comment. :P Consider this seconding those recs. The latter is my favorite, but the former has the female protagonist you're looking for, and is also really, really good.

On the non-fantasy (and I am a big fantasy reader!) side, I just realized that three of my all-time favorite YA books could be summarized as "on being welcoming to immigrants who are not exactly like you" and "the comfort of family and food in difficult times." There is dark stuff happening off page in two of them, and on page in the first half of one of them, but I reread them endlessly for the loving descriptions of food and family and putting a positive face on hardship and overcoming it. None of them are like Hunger Games dark, and I even think they're less dark than, say, The Giver or Number the Stars (though YMMV on how different things affect you). All of them, I would say are characterized by eucatastrophe.

1) Letters from Rifka: about a Jewish family fleeing Russia and emigrating to the US. The book opens with them successfully escaping and is about their journey and immigrant experiences in Poland, Belgium, and the US. Most of the really dark stuff is implied and off page, i.e. "why it sucked to be a Jew in Russia," but the stuff that actually happens to our protagonists is not nearly that bad, since they successfully escape. Based on the real-life experiences of the author's great-aunt around the turn of the twentieth century. Our protagonist does kiss a boy once, but that's as far as it goes.

2) Ditto When Hitler Stole Pink Rabbit, about a Jewish family that manages to get out of Germany on day one in 1933, and their hardships are like, learning how to speak French, learning how to cook, and worrying about people back home who didn't make it out in time. Reminds me a great deal of the Little House books. Also based on the author's experiences.

3) Bread and Roses, Too. This is the one with the most on-page dark stuff, but it's also my favorite, so even if you don't give it to her, you should read it yourself so we can discuss. :P It's set during the Bread and Roses strike in Massachusetts in 1912, where mill workers living in extreme poverty went on strike for better working conditions. The two POV characters are one native-born American boy and one Italian immigrant girl. Both are living hand to mouth in the first half of the book. The boy has an abusive alcoholic father, the girl has a loving family but has to deal with xenophobia. The second half of the book is about how everybody gets a happy ending. Trigger warnings coming out of its ears, but very hopeful messages about empathy, helping strangers, and the effectiveness of activism.

This is one where, if I gave it to a child, I would have a quick convo about the difference between characters being xenophobic and the book saying xenophobia is okay, because I'm old enough and aware enough to think the book is amazing, but it's just subtle enough that it would depend on the child whether they would pick up on the difference. I'm thinking particularly of the use of the word "wop," where I think the book assumes you know it's an epithet and that's that what governs who considers it acceptable and who doesn't.

(This is a different convo from the Little House convo I recommend having with young readers, which is called "good book, not your role model for race relations.")

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Date: 2020-04-07 11:56 am (UTC)
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Frances Hardinge writes excellent books for those who are aging out of the Princess Academy range. Cuckoo Song is great if a kind of scary book is OK - it's not dark, it doesn't have gore or death or much real-world trauma (except that it's set in England right after WWI), but it IS creepy. For a less scary book, her Fly By Night is weird and charming and I love it. (I haven't read her others; Gullstruck Island, The Lie Tree, and Verdigris Deep all have been well-reviewed, but I can't vouch for how much sex/darkness/gayness they might contain.)

Date: 2020-04-07 11:57 am (UTC)
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love that we posted this at exactly the same time

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Date: 2020-04-07 11:56 am (UTC)
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If she liked the Diana Wynne Joneses then I would definitely encourage some Frances Hardinges! Probably Fly By Night and A Face Like Glass would fit the bill best -- preteen protagonists, not too dark, funny and full of adventures and absolutely no romance whatsoever.

Date: 2020-04-07 12:31 pm (UTC)
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Oh! Also The Story of Owen, Dragon Slayer of Trondheim, by E. K. Johnston. I'm a huge fan of hers but more of her recent books are sexier or gayer. Contemporary fantasy, very Canadian, about a dragon slayer in a world where dragons feed on fossil fuels. The main character is not the dragon slayer but the girl who becomes his bard.

There is a same-sex relationship in the background, though (Owen's aunt and her partner).

Date: 2020-04-07 03:20 pm (UTC)
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Hmm, I'm bad at judging age ranges for reading material but let's see what I can do. All of these are either Middle Grade or YA. And I have reviews of all these posted to my dw if you want more details about any of them.

1. Stand on the Sky by Erin Bow

2. anything by Merrie Haskell but especially The Princess Curse

3. Rosemary Sutcliff writes books that are technically classified as children's books but have a deliberately elevated-archaic writing style that some kids might find challenging so I don't know how they'd work for your niece. Also some of them are really depressing so you might have to be careful if you want to avoid dark. The Eagle of the Ninth is a classic though, and for a reason, and that one does have a happy ending.

4. I'd second the people reccing Frances Hardinge!

5. I don't know if your niece is a horse girl but if she is, The Scorpio Races by Maggie Stiefvater is a great slightly-older fantasy-genre update of the kinds of things that are great about horse books

6. I'd also second the people reccing Robin McKinley! Especially The Blue Sword. If you're perusing McKinley's catalogue, though, avoid Deerskin for her, that one's really a lot.

7. The Pagan Chronicles by Catherine Jinks. There's one minor background character who's gay, not sure if that's enough prominence to be a dealbreaker.

8. If she likes books about A Very Special Heroine Who Is The Chosen One of Faerie, she might enjoy An Echantment of Ravens, by Margaret Rogerson. I didn't love everything about this book but the things that didn't work for me might be things that really work for her.

9. The Snow Queen, by Eileen Kernaghan

(EDIT: just fyi the Sutcliffs are pretty dude-focused, no female leads, and in The Pagan Chronicles only the fourth book has a female lead. The Scorpio Races has two leads, one each of boy and girl. The rest are all definitively girl books.)
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Date: 2020-04-07 04:07 pm (UTC)
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Dragon Pearl by Yoon Ha Lee! It's in the Rick Riordan Presents middle-grade series, it's got a female protagonist, there is zero sex (though there is a nonbinary secondary character, don't know if this is an issue), and it's SF fantasy with some influence of Korean mythology. A sequel is in the works, though it stands alone. I really really enjoyed it.

I also liked Baker's Magic by Diane Zahler, about an orphan girl in a medieval-ish kingdom who becomes a baker's apprentice and discovers that she has a sort of magic, in that her emotions while mixing the dough transfer to the person eating the breads and pastries she makes. Zero sex, middle-grade level, fascinating worldbuilding (for example, the kingdom has no trees, which is something that is gradually and very subtly revealed), adventure. Wonderful characters, including a lady pirate. Might be a little too young for her, though.

The Bloody Jack series by LA Meyer is great historical humor/adventure. Orphaned Mary "Jacky" Faber runs away to sea dressed as a boy. It's a little grim at first, because she's escaping a miserable life on the London streets, but it's a rollicking tale, Jacky Faber is spirited and determined, and although she doesn't think herself brave, she carries off her varied exploits with a great deal of aplomb and self-possession. There is one bit with a sailor intent on sodomy (that she thwarts easily) which may be pushing your content line? She falls in love but there's not so much as a kiss, I think.

I second the Hardinge suggestions, and The Eagle of the Ninth.

Date: 2020-04-07 06:37 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] ashkitty
Has she read The Dark is Rising Sequence yet?

Date: 2020-04-08 01:48 am (UTC)
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She's older so this might fall flat, but how about all of E.L. Konigsburg? (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/E._L._Konigsburg#Works) I LOVED From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler and A Proud Taste for Scarlet and Miniver. They might read a little young for 12, but it sounds like that's okay?

Date: 2020-04-08 09:42 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] rosefox
That's a good age for Lloyd Alexander's Prydain books, though I'm not sure what counts as "overly dark". There's war, characters die, things are scary and sad in places. But they're also so beautiful and full of hope and belief that the hapless, unprepared individual can figure things out well enough, and... no spoilers, but Taran Wanderer handles the chosen one/secret prince idea better than any book I've read before or since.

On a lighter note, perhaps Noel Streatfeild? There are very subtle lesbians in Ballet Shoes but it really took me until adulthood to go "Hang on, why do the two lady doctors live together?" so it won't ping the radar of anyone who isn't looking very closely for it.
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Date: 2020-04-08 04:00 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] alcanis_ivennil
Anne of Green Gables, pretty much any Discworld except Night Watch, Lord of the Rings, The Princess Bride... I'm not really good at recommending stuff for kids because at that age I was reading all sorts of heavy 19th century classics, Shakespeare, Homer, and other "not for most 12 year olds" things. I was already past my first encounter with the Brick.



Classics that might work for a kid: various Dumas books, Jules Verne, Cooper, Karl May, Don Quijote

In case this is still helpful . . .

Date: 2020-04-17 03:38 pm (UTC)
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It is sad how few SFF novels I have on my shelf that have female protagonists. Definitely echoing "Enchantress from the Stars," which I recently reread. If your niece likes that, she might also like "Children of the Star," which is set in the same 'verse and explores similar themes. My review here: https://duskpeterson.dreamwidth.org/276985.html

As for Lloyd Alexander, I prefer his Westmark trilogy, but that does get awfully dark, so you might want to wait on it.

Regarding "The Perilous Guard": Pope's "The Sherwood Ring" is awfully good too.

I can't recommend more highly Patricia A. McKillip's "Riddle-Master," which was originally published for teens. My review here: https://duskpeterson.dreamwidth.org/273236.html

If your niece likes fantasy, she should definitely try E. Nesbit and Edward Eager, even though their protagonists are younger than her.

Non-SFF:

Eleanor Cameron's "A Room Made of Windows" is inspired by her own childhood and is set, as I recall, in the San Francisco area in the 1920s, though I didn't guess that as a kid. I read the novel over and over. There are sequels that I haven't read yet.

Alice Dalgiesh's "The Silver Pencil" is based on her own childhood and early adulthood in the early twentieth century, following her journey from Trinidad to Britain to the U.S. My review here: https://duskpeterson.dreamwidth.org/279793.html

Christie Harris wrote four fictionalized accounts of members of her family growing up in mid-twentieth-century Canada. My reviews of the first two novels are here: https://duskpeterson.dreamwidth.org/283130.html#cutid2 https://duskpeterson.dreamwidth.org/284090.html#cutid2

Norma Johnston's Keeping Days series may have too many boyfriend passages to interest your niece at this stage, but it's a series to keep in mind for the future. It's set at the beginning of the twentieth century, based on family stories that Johnston grew up with; the primary focus is on the protagonist's family and community.

One disadvantage of my taste in books is that they're usually out of print. :) However, may I recommend ThriftBooks for inexpensive used copies?
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