Rather behindhand notice

Mar. 23rd, 2026 03:42 pm
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Wish to inform those that are interested in Clorinda Cathcart's Circle that Volume 25, Choices: Taking Decisions will appear this coming Friday, 27th March:

A Parliamentary election causes considerable upheaval to the summer plans of Society in general, and of Clorinda and her circle. But besides any choices concerning the government of the nation, several of them find that they have to make decisions touching on more personal matters.

The delay in making this announcement has been caused, in part, by problems with the Google Books version: but it is hoped that these will be resolved in a timely manner.

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For Poetry Monday:

Suicide’s Note, Langston Hughes

The calm,
Cool face of the river
Asked me for a kiss.


---L.

Subject quote from Sailing, Christopher Cross.

Technology hates me

Mar. 23rd, 2026 07:06 am
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I already blogged about the failure of my Garmin satnav in Wisconsin. Since I got back, things have only gotten worse.

Sometime on Friday, my cell phone failed. It still turned on, still got wifi, but the signal was abruptly worse, no bars inside the house, and even outside, it wouldn't make calls. Or texts. Or even connect for data. You've no idea how much you depend on that little box, until you can't.

And then there's my email. I usually access my email one of two ways. If I'm on my desktop, I'll download everything with a POP mail client (Eudora, don't laugh. It still works), to read, sort and archive offline. Other times, I'll preview on my tablet, using their web interface. I always click the "Keep logged in" button, and they always log me out again in about a day.

Well, this time, I couldn't log back in. I'd get a little red message, "error with login or password." I almost tried a password reset, but that required two-factor authentication, and my cell phone isn't working. I tried to log in to my account to be sure I'd paid the bill--grabbing at straws here--but I'm locked out there too. And CenturyLink's customer support is only on duty weekdays during business hours, and their chatbot is useless.

If that's not enough, on Saturday, my debit card failed. Trying to gas up the car at Costco, neither of my Oregon Community Credit Union cards would work. Fortunately, we have another account at a different institution, so I was able to get home. But on Sunday, when I tried to deposit a check at an automatic teller, it told me my card didn't support that transaction. And when I tried to log in to their web portal, it said my account was "disabled." And of course, no customer service on weekends.

I'm beginning to feel like that Twilight Zone character who'd died and didn't know it.

I had a little success, though. Testing my Garmin on a charger at home proved the unit itself kept a charge, though still not on the cord connected to the car. I do have a USB plug that fits a car 12 volt/cigarette lighter outlet, and tried running the (too short) proprietary cord from plug to satnav. It booted fine when I turned the car on, though had trouble finding satellites until Denise held it up above the dash. At which point, it was able to direct us to our concert down in South Eugene.

Then yesterday afternoon, it occurred to me to check whether my cell provider had support on weekends, and Hallelujah! Boost Mobile were open from 8 am til midnight seven days a week. Did the chat, and the bot ran me through some simple tests--take out the SIM card, restart the phone, and when that didn't work, connected me to a human. She confirmed the tests I'd done, then took a phone number to have tech support call me. (Oddly, couldn't call my landline. Fortunately, Denise's cell is on a different provider.) They called fairly promptly, heard my story, took info about my phone, and decided I needed to replace the SIM card. I could have them send one in 3-4 business days, or I could buy one locally. There are no longer any Boost stores in Eugene but Walmart sells SIM cards, and they put a $10 credit on my account.

Turned out to cost $11.13, rounded down to $11.10 because I paid cash--no debit card, remember?--and they didn't have any pennies in the till. And while I was at Delta Oaks, I dropped in to Goodwill's computer department. Couldn't find a replacement charger for the Garmin, but was able to score a USB extension cord that would allow me to stick my satnav to the windshield where God and the satellites intended, for $2.75 with the senior discount.

Got home, installed the SIM, had a brief panic attack when the phone booted up on T-Mobile. Tried calling 611 for set-up help, as instructed, on Denise's phone, but that went to Trac-Phone. So I called the Boost set-up number from their website, argued fruitlessly with the phone menu, hung up and called the customer support number, got the same dialog. I'm not sure how I finally got it to connect me with a human--I think by saying Technical support in increasingly impatient tones--but finally got a human, who took the SIM number, my phone ID, had me turn off the phone and remove and replace the SIM--I shouldn't have turned it on yet. She did arcane things on her end, and when she told me to turn on the phone again, it was working properly again.

Two down, two to go.

To Be Read By Rod Serling

Mar. 23rd, 2026 01:00 pm
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Posted by Jen

Deedeedeedeeedeedeedeedee

You unlock this bakery with the key of imagination. Beyond it is another dimension.

A dimension of icing.

A dimension of piping bags.

A dimension of wreckitude.

You're moving into a land of both shadow and substance, of bad taste and even worse skill. You just crossed over into...

The Twilight Zone.


BUM BUM BAAAAAHHHH...

 Picture, if you will... a monkey. This monkey:

I know, creepy right? [shivering] Brrrrrr. Totally.

 

[resuming serious announcer voice] Ahem. Now picture, if you will, five ravenous-yet-dim-witted Shih Tzu dogs:

[sternly] Let's call them Muffy, Boopsie, Precious, Buttercup and Mr. Snuggles.

 

Now picture, if you will, a face of terror that watches in malignant silence far beyond your present capacity to understand. A face enigmatically bizarre in terms of time and space. A face...

...of a tweety bird.

 

 Now picture, if you will, Meerkat Zombies...raising the roof.

"What up, playah?"

 

This is the stuff of fantasy, the thread of imagination, the ingredients... of the Twilight Zone.

 BUM BUM BAAAAAHHHHH... 

SQUEEDLEDEEEE!!!


Jennifer P., Matt N., Christine S., and Melanie L., picture, if you will... a dolphin eating a Snickers bar in flip-flops and a cardigan. Then tell me what that looks like. I've always wondered.

UPDATE! LeAnna and Woobie took up the dolphin challenge and sent in their ideas.

First LeAnna's:

AWESOME! Check out the flip flop thongs on his flippers.

 

And next we have Woobie's

See, the snickers bar is wearing the cardigan and flip flops because I apparently have no grasp of sentence structure. ?thought Who would have

Touché!

 

One more!

This one's from Vanilla Smoke. Awesome!

*****

P.S. Here's one more read for you Rod Serling fans:

The Twilight Man: Rod Serling and the Birth of Television

It's a graphic novel - so basically a long-form comic book - about Serling's career and "descent into his own personal Twilight Zone." OooOOOooh. Looks awesome, and it has great reviews!

*****

And from my other blog, Epbot:

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Mar. 22nd, 2026 09:06 pm
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Hi guise!! (That's my gender-neutral variation of 'guys' as a catch-all term of endearment). I finished watching the k-drama Knight Flower on [personal profile] china_shop's recommendation and IT WAS SO GOOD.

The heroine is a widow during the old-timey monarchy; her life is extremely restricted and it's actually similar to how widows are treated in my country/culture including in my own family just a couple generations ago. So she was immediately sympathetic to me. She becomes a masked vigilante at night, so that she can give herself something fulfilling to do, and her fight scenes are such fun!

Her love interest is a guy in law enforcement who is supposed to catch her but ends up wanting to protect her identity and aid her, which is DELICIOUS to me. He's so righteous in a non-bureaucratic way, I love it. And when he's jealous he's not scary jealous, he's cute pouty jealous, which is my FAVOURITE. It's a delicious slow burn but they don't even kiss at the end, which gave me the feeling of reading a fic tagged with edging and finding out it's actually orgasm denial. Speaking of fic, I have found a couple of fics in which they purportedly kiss, so I'm going to savour those!

I also binge-watched Season 2 of Deadloch, six episodes in two days. Shoutout to [personal profile] isabrella because I wouldn't have found out a second season was out now if you didn't mention it!

I'm still reblogging Yunho things on Tumblr despite the pain mixed with my usual adoration when he appears on my dashboard. I've weaned myself off an idol before, and forcing it doesn't work, so I'll see how I continue to feel, I guess. Vara talked to me about it, and she said a lot of people who have messy romantic relationships are decent in general/in their other relationships. I see her point, and I think any idol in his place would have done the same (not standing up for his girlfriend in order to protect his career). But I can't excuse him allowing her to think he was going to come back and make it up to her, if he had no intention to make good on those promises. Vara said it's not all on him to give her closure, but at the very least he should be honest with her about breaking up with her. He was neither honest nor kind.

I've been bleeding lightly since the 21st even though I had my moontime on the 8th this month. It's the second month I'm bleeding during my luteal phase. It's a good thing I've got cloth pads for light bleeds because imagine if I had to run through boxes of pads during my heavy periods and then had to use pads again for the irregular bleeds. I told Bella that I'm using one to two pads a day and she said she considers that a normal period because that's how much she bleeds during her period. We laughed mirthlessly about me calling it a 'light bleed'.

I've ordered chasteberry vitex tablets so I'm hoping those will reduce my estrogen dominance. I found out that poongar rice, a traditional rice variety from Tamil Nadu, is called 'women's rice' because it's got the nutrients needed for better menstrual health. I'm planning to start eating it for breakfast. It's got iron, magnesium, zinc and calcium. It's got as much protein as a similar serving of greek yoghurt, so with all the talk of protein in wellness spaces I'm surprised it isn't better known. Traditional and heirloom varieties of rice and millets seem to be pretty nutrient-dense, and I'd like to pop fewer vitamin pills.

2026 Rules and Schedule

Mar. 23rd, 2026 07:10 am
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WhumpEx is a whump themed multifandom exchange that will be run on Ao3. Matching will be done on fandom, relationship or solo character, and whump category. You must be 18+ to participate and maintain anonymity until creator reveals.

Schedule:
Nominations: April 7 - April 18
Sign-Ups: April 21 - May 4
Assignments Due: June 2
Work Reveals: June 16
Creator Reveals: June 23
All times will be 8PM PST

Email: whumpexmod@gmail.com
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Rules:

Nominations

Nomination rules and formatting guidelines have changed since last round so please read the rules carefully before nominating.

You will be able to nominate up to 10 fandoms with up to 15 relationships or solo characters per fandom.

Each relationship tag must specify which character(s) you would like whumped with "(Hurt Character A)" at the end of the tag. If you would like all of the characters whumped, you should add "(All Hurt)" at the end of the tag. You can also leave it up for your creator to choose which character(s) to whump with "(Any Hurt)" at the end of the tag. Solo characters nominations are allowed and should be nominated with the prefix "Solo:". Make sure to include "Hurt" before the solo character's name for clarity purposes.

Nominations with "Reader" as a character will not be accepted for this exchange. Nominations with "Any Character", "Any Group A Member", or other similar nominations will not be accepted for this exchange.

"Character A & Group" type nominations are allowed as long as the group is a recognizable and established set of 6 or less characters. You can also nominate the group on it's own with the prefix "Group:". If you are nominating a character with a group or a group on its own, you must comment on the nomination post with the fandom, name of group, and all the members of the group before it can be approved.

Original Work, Crossovers, and Creator’s Choice of Fandom nominations are allowed. RPF (Real Person Fiction) is not allowed. Crossovers should be nominated under “Crossover Fandom” and each character should be disambiguated with the fandom name in parentheses.

Original Work nominations should be nominated under the “Original Work” fandom and gender preferences can be baked into the relationship/solo character tag (e.g. "Male Knight & Female Knight (OW) (Hurt Male Knight)"). If you do not specify a gender (e.g. "Knight/Knight (OW) (Hurt Knight)"), your creator can choose any gender(s) to fill the tag.

Creator’s Choice of Fandom nominations should be nominated under “Creator’s Choice of Fandom” and gender preferences can be baked into the relationship/solo character tag (e.g. "Creator's Choice of Female Character & Creator's Choice of Female Character (CCoF) (Hurt Female Character)"). If you do not specify a gender (e.g. "Creator's Choice of Parent & Creator's Choice of Child (CCoF) (Hurt Parent)"), your creator can choose any gender(s) to fill the tag.

Please use the canonical fandom tag when nominating. If your fandom does not have a canonical tag, please use your best judgment in formatting it when nominating. If your fandom falls under an All Media Type (AMT) tag, you can nominate the specific fandom you would like to request/offer. You can also nominate using AMT fandom tags and we will evaluate them on a case-by-case basis. Please only use AMT fandom tags if you are okay receiving any canon that falls under the tag or for crossovers between canons under the AMT tag.

Make sure to use the characters’ full, capitalized names when nominating. All relationship/solo character nominations must be disambiguated with the fandom name in parentheses. Please make sure the disambiguation is clear and specific (e.g. If you are nominating under "Marvel Cinematic Universe" “Pepper Potts/Tony Stark (Marvel)” would be unclear because the nomination could belong to other fandoms that don't fall under that tag. “Pepper Potts/Tony Stark (MCU)” would be much clearer). Incorrectly formatted nominations will be rejected.

Nominations Formats:
- Character A & Character B (Fandom) (Hurt B)
- Character A/Character B (Fandom) (Any Hurt)
- Character A & Character B (Fandom) (All Hurt)
- Character A/Character B/Character C (Fandom) (Hurt A & C)
- Group: Group A (Fandom) (Hurt Character A)
- Solo: Hurt Character A (Fandom)

Crossover Nomination Formats (under “Crossover Fandom”):
- Character A (Fandom A) & Character B (Fandom B) (Hurt B)
- Character A (Fandom A) & Character B (Fandom B) & Character C (Fandom C) (Hurt A & B)
- Character A (Fandom A)/Character B (Fandom B) (All Hurt)
- Character A (Fandom A)/Character B (Fandom B)/Character C (Fandom C) (Any Hurt)

Click to expand for more specific formatting examples and formatting examples with character names
Formatting examples with character names:
- Aziraphale & Crowley (GO Book) (Hurt Crowley)
- Sherlock Holmes & John Watson (Study in Emerald) (Any Hurt)
- Harry Potter/Ginny Weasley (HP) (All Hurt)
- Sherlock Holmes & Mrs. Hudson & John Watson (SH - Granada) (Hurt Sherlock Holmes)
- James T. Kirk/Leonard "Bones" McCoy/Spock (Star Trek TOS) (Hurt Spock & Bones)
- Casper Darling & Helen Marshall & Zachariah Trench (Control) (Any Hurt)
- Castiel/Dean Winchester/Sam Winchester (SN) (All Hurt)
- Luke Skywalker (SW OT)/Steve Rogers (MCU) (Hurt Steve Rogers)
- Group: Saja Boys (KPop Demon Hunters) (Any Hurt)
- Solo: Hurt Tony Stark (Iron Man Movies)


These are all the potential formats for relationship nominations. You can choose specific character(s) to be whumped, leave it up to your creator to choose a character to whump, or ask for all the characters to be whumped.

- Character A/Character B (Fandom) (Hurt A)
- Character A/Character B (Fandom) (Any Hurt)
- Character A/Character B (Fandom) (All Hurt)
- Character A & Character B (Fandom) (Hurt B)
- Character A & Character B (Fandom) (Any Hurt)
- Character A & Character B (Fandom) (All Hurt)
- Character A/Character B/Character C (Fandom) (Hurt B)
- Character A/Character B/Character C (Fandom) (Hurt A & C)
- Character A/Character B/Character C (Fandom) (Any Hurt)
- Character A/Character B/Character C (Fandom) (All Hurt)
- Character A & Character B & Character C (Fandom) (Hurt A)
- Character A & Character B & Character C (Fandom) (Hurt B & C)
- Character A & Character B & Character C (Fandom) (Any Hurt)
- Character A & Character B & Character C (Fandom) (All Hurt)
- Group: Group A (Fandom) (Hurt Character A)
- Group: Group A (Fandom) (Hurt Character A & D)
- Group: Group A (Fandom) (Any Hurt)
- Group: Group A (Fandom) (All Hurt)
- Solo: Hurt Character A (Fandom)

For Crossovers (Under "Crossover Fandom"):
- Character A (Fandom A)/Character B (Fandom B) (Hurt A)
- Character A (Fandom A)/Character B (Fandom B) (Any Hurt)
- Character A (Fandom A)/Character B (Fandom B) (All Hurt)
- Character A (Fandom A) & Character B (Fandom B) (Hurt B)
- Character A (Fandom A) & Character B (Fandom B) (Any Hurt)
- Character A (Fandom A) & Character B (Fandom B) (All Hurt)
- Character A (Fandom A)/Character B (Fandom B)/Character C (Fandom C) (Hurt A)
- Character A (Fandom A)/Character B (Fandom B)/Character C (Fandom C) (Hurt B & C)
- Character A (Fandom A)/Character B (Fandom B)/Character C (Fandom C) (Any Hurt)
- Character A (Fandom A)/Character B (Fandom B)/Character C (Fandom C) (All Hurt)
- Character A (Fandom A) & Character B (Fandom B) & Character C (Fandom C) (Hurt C)
- Character A (Fandom A) & Character B (Fandom B) & Character C (Fandom C) (Hurt A & B)
- Character A (Fandom A) & Character B (Fandom B) & Character C (Fandom C) (Any Hurt)
- Character A (Fandom A) & Character B (Fandom B) & Character C (Fandom C) (All Hurt)


Requests
During the sign-up period, you must request 1-10 fandoms with 1-20 relationships or solo characters per fandom. You must also request 1-12 whump categories. You will be allowed to request a fandom multiple times but this will not count as unique fandoms. You must request at least 3 unique fandoms with distinct lore for a guaranteed gift. Original Work requests will only count as 1 fandom. Crossovers will only count as 1 unique fandom if the crossover fandoms being requested are not requested on their own. If you are unsure about whether a fandom counts as a unique fandom, feel free to comment on this post or email us.

Whump Categories:
- Abuse
- Angst
- Character Death
- Emotional Hurt/Comfort
- Emotional Whump
- Graphic Injury
- Graphic Torture
- Graphic Violence
- Hurt/Comfort
- Illness
- Rape
- Whump

You may opt-in to art with the checkbox on the sign up form if you would welcome art as your only gift, but you will not be guaranteed an art gift. You can also opt-in to art treats in the additional details box on your sign up.

All Do Not Wants (DNWs) must be in the optional details box to be enforceable. Any DNWs in a linked letter will not be enforced. All DNWs must be clearly labeled as “DNW(s)” or “Do Not Want(s)”. All DNWs must be reasonable, clear, and judgement-free. You should not explain the reason(s) why you have DNW'd something (e.g. instead of "DNW: Vomiting because it grosses me out, Death (it's one of my triggers), Sickfic (I just don't like it)", you should simply list your DNWs as "DNW: Vomiting, Death, Sickfic").

You cannot contradict your request with a DNW (e.g. DNW'ing Rape after requesting the Rape category). Your DNWs cannot box in your creator (e.g. DNW everything except Holmes being stabbed). Any unreasonable/bad-faith DNW will not be enforced.

Archive Warnings are opt-out so make sure to DNW any Archive Warnings you do not want to receive. Archive Warning DNWs cannot contradict your requested whump categories (e.g. DNW'ing Graphic Descriptions of Violence while requesting Graphic Torture). If you are requesting Creator's Choice of Fandom, you can DNW up to 3 fandoms. If you don’t have any DNWs, feel free to mention that in your optional details!

You are allowed to add an optional letter to your request, but the letter must be complete and viewable by the time assignments go out. Your recipient will not be obligated to wait for your letter to be complete and viewable after they receive their assignment. Make sure the letter is easy to access as well (i.e. you do not have to make an account to view it, the formatting is easy to read on both mobile and desktop view, and the fonts and colors are easy to read/look at).

You may sign up with up to two well behaved accounts, but you cannot be matchable to yourself. If you sign up with multiple accounts, you will have multiple assignments. Please keep that in mind if you decide to sign up with a second account. Any bad-faith sign ups with multiple accounts will result in your sign-up being deleted. You must be in good standing in my exchanges to sign up.


Offers
During the sign-up period, you must also offer 1-10 fandoms with 1-20 relationships or solo characters per fandom. You must also offer 1-12 whump categories per offer.

Matching will be done on a minimum of 1 fandom, relationship/solo character, and whump category. Please make sure you are matchable by the time sign-ups close. Unmatchables will be emailed and have 24 hours to respond before their sign up is deleted. Please verify the email on your Ao3 account and make sure it is correct and active.


Assignment Requirements
Your assignment fill must be a fanfic with a minimum of 500 words or a clean sketch on unlined paper if your recipient has opted into art. You must include a requested fandom, relationship or solo character, and whump category. The fill cannot include any DNWs. The fill must also clearly feature whump as a main theme. The requested hurt character(s) must be significantly hurt physically and/or emotionally.

Your fill must be newly created and complete fanwork. It must also stand alone and cannot be a part of an existing series of connected fanworks. If you are creating an Original Work fill, you cannot reuse character(s) you have featured in fanworks before. You cannot have multiple recipients for one fanwork.

AI generated fanworks of any kind are not allowed.


Defaulting
If you cannot complete your assignment, please default as soon as possible so that the request can be put out as a pinch hit. There will be no consequences for defaulting, but you will not go out as a pinch hit if you do not complete your assignment.

To default, go to your "Assignments" tab on your Ao3 dashboard and scroll to your assignment for this exchange. Click on "default" and confirm the default. Alternatively, you can go to the Ao3 collection for this exchange, click on the "My Assignments" tab, and click "default" from that page. You do not need to email the mods with a reason or explanation for defaulting.


Pinch Hits
Pinch Hits will be posted to Dreamwidth and fills must meet all assignment requirements. The exchange will not reveal until all Pinch Hits requesting at least 3 unique fandoms have been claimed and filled.


Treats
You do not have to be signed up to treat. Treats do not need to meet the minimum wordcount requirement but must meet all other assignment requirements.

Treats will be opt-out. If you do not wish to receive a treat, please mention that in your sign up. If you do wish to receive a treat, feel free to indicate that in your sign up and make sure your account settings are set to allow gifts. The Ao3 default for this setting is for gifts to not be allowed, so make sure to double check if the setting is enabled if you wish to receive treats.


Anonymous Period
During the creation period and anonymous period, do not publicly post or talk about the fanwork you are creating. Do not publicly post or talk about any fanworks you have posted to the collection during this period. Make sure you don’t include links to your social media accounts in your fanwork until the anonymous period is over.

Additionally, do not contact your recipient during the creation period. If you have any questions for your recipient (e.g. DNW clarifications), please email the mods with your query and we will forward the question to the recipient. Don't forget to include your Ao3 username and your recipient's Ao3 username in the email!


Gifts
If you receive a gift that does not meet the minimum assignment requirements, please reach out to the mods via email ASAP. Otherwise, please comment on your gift! We will not be checking for comments, but please show your appreciation for your gift.
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Fandom: Wuthering Heights (inspired by the 1847 novel and the 1967 BBC series starring Ian McShane).
Title: The Light Within Shadows
Characters:  Heathcliff, Catherine Earnshaw, Ellen Dean, Hindley Earnshaw, Joseph, Edgar Linton, Isabella Linton + Original Characters
Relationship: Heathcliff / Catherine
Rating: Mature
Chapter 3 TW: Mention of alcohol addiction, past death, and grieving. Also brief mention of blood.
Chapters: 3/?
Word Count so far: 4,456
Chapter 3 Summary: As the night deepens, Heathcliff and Catherine start to bond. But in the darkness beyond the old house, something evil waits.
 
 
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Posted by Julianna W. Miner

As many of you know, something really important is happening, and it’s critical that we all stay informed. There’s a reality star/influencer whose name includes the words Paul, Taylor, and Frankie in an order that is both confusing and ultimately irrelevant. What’s important is that she did some stuff, and now all hell is breaking loose.

You’re probably thinking: “I don’t care,” or “There are more important things happening,” or “This is an intentional distraction orchestrated by our algorithmic AI overlords.”

Maybe it does feel like I’m being fed this content against my will, but that’s only because I’m paying attention to what’s happening in the world. And sure, those things are really important, but we also invade other countries all the time now. Keep up. Maybe we’ll have midterm elections, maybe not. Who knows?

But this stuff with the Mormon wives? It’s happening right now, and it’s a doozy.

It’s about gender, power dynamics, and which of the wives is the hottest. It’s about abuse, an ongoing criminal investigation, and the role the media plays in shaping our perception of events. It’s about religious conservatism impacting culture and who it chooses to protect. And perhaps most importantly, it’s about whether or not “Mom-tock” can survive.

So get your head in the game. We need to know exactly what happened and when. Who leaked the video from 2023 and why? Who’s really the real bad guy here: Taylor, Frankie, or Paul? And are we absolutely sure it’s not one of the Mormon husbands? Because those guys look disturbingly like JCPenney mannequins whose eyebrows were drawn on with a Sharpie. And apparently, they’re trying to make “Dad-tok” a thing, and I don’t even know what that is, but absolutely not.

Listen, I know many of us are feeling overwhelmed right now. It’s hard to process everything when the news just doesn’t stop. The upcoming season of The Bachelorette has been pulled. Take that in. Really absorb it. It’s unprecedented. And you know what else? Somebody’s husband’s eyebrows just filed for divorce. He filed, not her. It’s like we’re living in the upside-down.

But don’t give in to despair or allow your attention to drift in other, less consequential directions. That’s what they want you to do. That’s how they win. So if you need a little break, that’s fine. There’s always college basketball.

Night In the Woods Icons

Mar. 23rd, 2026 11:51 am
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12 icons, the rest are here @bookscorpion

starting slow is still starting

Mar. 23rd, 2026 07:37 am
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[personal profile] marcicat
Communal Creators time-tracking week started yesterday, huzzah! And there's a spreadsheet! (Heck yeah, spreadsheets!)

I was planning to do crochet for my 'creative time,' but wound up doing 20 minutes of writing yesterday and not much else. (That was twenty minutes split into four 5-minute blocks. Writing is hard.)

Let's see what happens today!

Trend: Short Trench Coats

Mar. 23rd, 2026 11:00 am
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Posted by Angie

In the Spring and Summer Trends post, I mentioned that short trench coats are having a fashion moment. They’re a contemporary update on the iconic classic long and belted silhouette. The short trench looks and feels lighter, sportier, and more modern. Cropped at the waist or high hip, these shorter versions retain traditional trench details like double-breasted fronts, storm flaps, big collars and epaulettes. There are single-breasted versions too. Fits are generally fluid, boxy and oversized, although tailored versions exist. Belted versions add waist definition. Colours are neutral and many in earthy stone, khaki, toffee, or tan. There are also olive, cream, black, brown, navy, and false plain options. A potentially fab topper that can be great to wear in mild and transitional weather.

The idea is to wear the short trench with just about any outfit, thereby allowing outfit proportions to fall where they may. The short length of the trending trench is a slam dunk pairing with wide and voluminous pants, jeans, dresses and skirts. Looks fab with shorts too. The unbelted versions are particularly appealing if belted toppers feel fussy, cumbersome, and uncomfortable. Notably, when double-breasted versions are worn open, they drape architecturally over the outfit. Boxy single-breasted versions worn open can drape architecturally too.

Personally, I enjoy wearing trench coats, and usually have a couple in my outerwear capsule. I keep their colours light and bright, and their silhouettes, long, belted, classic, fluid, and preferably hooded. My trench coats are effective raincoats to wear in the Seattle drizzle. That said, I threw caution to the wind this year and bought a short, tan, oversized trench coat without a hood because my ’80s gene is alive and strong. I was shopping with a super stylish friend at MANGO and spotted the Cuba Oversized Short Cotton Trench Coat. Tried it on, and fell in love. My friend gave it a smiley thumbs up, and that was that. It’s big, yet its short length and neat high collar give it just enough structure so that my narrow shoulders don’t drown in the silhouette. The tan and blonde tortoiseshell buttons are an easy match with my hair. It looks good worn over my tailored, fluid and oversized tops and wide bottoms. I’m excited to wear it regularly as soon as the weather warms up. I suspect it will become a wardrobe essential and workhorse.

Over to you. What are your thoughts on the short trench trend?

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Just one thing: 23 March 2026

Mar. 23rd, 2026 06:31 am
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It's challenge time!

Comment with Just One Thing you've accomplished in the last 24 hours or so. It doesn't have to be a hard thing, or even a thing that you think is particularly awesome. Just a thing that you did.

Feel free to share more than one thing if you're feeling particularly accomplished!

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Bullace farm

Mar. 23rd, 2026 09:04 am
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 I belong to two Civil War reenactment groups.  The Norfolke Trayned Bandes and Little Woodham.

The Norfolks have a strong connection to Bullace Farm and many of them spend a week there every year as volunteers.  This year, the volunteers from LIttle Woodham are visiting the farm for a day.

I really really want to be there, but it's a three hour trip on a mini bus, and three hours back again.  And I'm paranoid about long journeys.  I've had three really bad (lasting more than two months) of sciatica in the last few years, and two of them were triggered by long journeys.

If you've ever had sciatica, you'll know just how painful it is.  If you haven't, all I can tell you is that it's the most painful health condition I've had in my life and it can leave you pretty much immobilised for the duration.

The last bad attack was triggered by a long train journey.   I chose train rather than car, as I knew I'd be able to get up and walk round at intervals, but sadly, even that and doing tai chi at stations when there were changes, wasn't enough.

By the time I got home I was in agony.  My husband picked me up at the station, and I didn't do any journeys after that for quite some time. Even the short distance to physio appointments had to be done lying on the back seat of the car.  Sitting upright was't an option, even for five minutes.

Over the next couple of months, I worked my way through three different physios who all agreed that I needed an operation (to be fair, my original bout of sciatica a few years before HAD needed an operation), until, finally, Manfred came back to England (he has an elderly parent in the Netherlands).  I walked in with all my weight on my walking stick, and walked out without the stick.

Took a couple of weeks to finish off the job, but that man is a miracle worker.  (He correctly identified the cause of my previous bout of sciatica, as well.)

Ah well, to cut a long story short, I shall not go to Bullace Farm, even though  I madly want to.

If you want to know what the farm is like, watch Tales From the Green Valley.

 

 

 

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Happy birthday, [personal profile] robot_mel!

Esperanto warning

Mar. 23rd, 2026 08:41 am
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Posted by Mark Liberman

From Frederick Newmeyer: "A sign in the breakfast room of a not very classy hotel in Amsterdam:"

"The middle language is Esperanto! Who could have decided on Esperanto as the third language and who can read it? The hotel receptionists have no idea."

I don't have much to add, except that Google Ngrams suggests that Esperanto is gradually dying out:

And why the ~20 year oscillations?

Extremely cool HR vid

Mar. 23rd, 2026 09:47 pm
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The hunter gets captured by the game by castxt

The song's a light, jazzy Blondie number about a hunter being captured by the game or prey they're stalking - the hunter being Ilya, pursuing Shane. Beautiful, tight editing, uses the whole song, and the ending is just gorgeous.

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