Incidentally, if sugar hoarder Ludwig did indeed make a pass at EC (in between hitting on the staff) and if Friedrich Sophus thought she was hot, that makes two Wartenslebens who considered her attractive.
AS for cousin Ludolf the future terrible husband: Lehndorff himself admists elsewhere that beloved Prince of Prussia AW was also a terrible husband. (By neglect, not by active insult, but stll, neglect hurts, too.)So it's entirely possible that Ludolf was great fun to be with for Hans Herrmann, but not so much for his wife. Especially if she, too, had feelings for Lehndorff when she married. I mean, we don't know that. For all we know, it was entirely on Lehndorff's side, and she just thought he was her nice cousin but didn't care either way whom she married as long as it was a good prospect, which Ludolf certainly was. But it's equally possible she'd been at least a bit in love, and that would not have made for a good start for the marriage, which in turn could have soured Ludolf's behavior.
Incidentally, she ended up as chief Lady in Waiting to Ferdinand's wife so spent a lot of time in Ferdinand's residence Friedrichsruh, or when Ferdinand & family were visiting Heinrich came along.
Incidentally, if sugar hoarder Ludwig did indeed make a pass at EC (in between hitting on the staff) and if Friedrich Sophus thought she was hot, that makes two Wartenslebens who considered her attractive.
Sorry, my wording was confusing. What I meant was that Friedrich Sophus said *Fritz* said she was hot. (This is in the 1730s, when the big Hohenzollern question of the decade is: is Fritz trying to get an heir on his wife or not?)
So it's entirely possible that Ludolf was great fun to be with for Hans Herrmann, but not so much for his wife.
Yes, exactly what I was thinking. And who else was a terrible husband but great fun for young Hans Hermann to hang out with? Fritz!
But it's equally possible she'd been at least a bit in love, and that would not have made for a good start for the marriage, which in turn could have soured Ludolf's behavior.
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Re: Wartenslebens
Date: 2020-03-09 05:45 pm (UTC)AS for cousin Ludolf the future terrible husband: Lehndorff himself admists elsewhere that beloved Prince of Prussia AW was also a terrible husband. (By neglect, not by active insult, but stll, neglect hurts, too.)So it's entirely possible that Ludolf was great fun to be with for Hans Herrmann, but not so much for his wife. Especially if she, too, had feelings for Lehndorff when she married. I mean, we don't know that. For all we know, it was entirely on Lehndorff's side, and she just thought he was her nice cousin but didn't care either way whom she married as long as it was a good prospect, which Ludolf certainly was. But it's equally possible she'd been at least a bit in love, and that would not have made for a good start for the marriage, which in turn could have soured Ludolf's behavior.
Incidentally, she ended up as chief Lady in Waiting to Ferdinand's wife so spent a lot of time in Ferdinand's residence Friedrichsruh, or when Ferdinand & family were visiting Heinrich came along.
Re: Wartenslebens
Date: 2020-03-09 06:04 pm (UTC)Sorry, my wording was confusing. What I meant was that Friedrich Sophus said *Fritz* said she was hot. (This is in the 1730s, when the big Hohenzollern question of the decade is: is Fritz trying to get an heir on his wife or not?)
So it's entirely possible that Ludolf was great fun to be with for Hans Herrmann, but not so much for his wife.
Yes, exactly what I was thinking. And who else was a terrible husband but great fun for young Hans Hermann to hang out with? Fritz!
But it's equally possible she'd been at least a bit in love, and that would not have made for a good start for the marriage, which in turn could have soured Ludolf's behavior.
*nod* Quite possible.