Frederick the Great discussion post 9

[cahn]

...I leave you guys alone for one weekend and it's time for a new Fritz post, lol!

I'm gonna reply to the previous post comments but I guess new letter-reading, etc. should go in this one :)

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Re: Peter Keith - aha!

[mildred_of_midgard]

And even the cousins who probaly saw Hans Herrmann three times a year, if that. Not to mention that two of them were the opposite of helpful. (Though okay, these weren't the ones to get special favour.)

True. They both got normal royal favor, though, in the form of repeated promotions up to lieutenant general. Peter got zero promotions. I'm getting the impression he was both better at and (my headcanon) more interested in administration, much like Fredersdorf.

As they share another life circumstance, they might end up saying, well, at least our wives rock, and so do the kids. Here's to them!

You know, I was imagining Lehndorff and Peter parallels, especially in their marriages and kids (though Peter with fewer or hopefully no tragedies). I of course have no evidence for it, the Peter-Knyphausen* marriage could have been the world's most passionate romance, but my headcanon is a marriage made for good solid 18th century considerations, with romance playing a minimal part, and with both of them being stand-up husbands and fathers, and with respect, friendship, and tenderness growing up between the spouses.

* I've seen various spellings of her given name, Oriane and Adriane at least. Sigh.

You know, now I'm imagining Lehndorff and Peter sharing a glass and sympathizing on the subjects of a) being in love with a Prince who might like you but loves other people way more

<3

Yeah, I definitely see Peter carrying some unrequited feelings. The difference in my headcanon being that, partly due to Lehndorff's and Peter's differing personalities and especially due to their differing situations, Peter moves on more in terms of romantic love, and accepts that he had a fling when he was 16, it didn't work out, and they're both different people now. But he got badly burned in 1741/1742, and what he desperately craves is Fritz's approval, a sign that he's not forgotten and Fritz doesn't resent him for 1730.

Which is why I badly want to give him a fic with that conversation where they sit down in 1750 and share their feelings and straighten out their misunderstandings, to mutual shock and closure. (It still ends in Fritz disclaiming all blame for the miscommunication and laying it squarely on Peter's shoulders, of course, but that doesn't matter, because at least now Peter *knows*. He knows he had Fritz's favor all those years he thought he was in disgrace, and now he can move on.)

b) the goddam Katte clan. They'll make an obligatory "nothing against dead Hans Herrmann, it's not his fault" disclaimer,

Oof. Well, my Peter has strong feelings of insecurity around Hans Hermann, the romantic hero who was everything Peter isn't, so while Lehndorff might be able to vent about the Katte clan and feel better, because his beef with them is all events outside Lehndorff's control, Peter's going to be silently dying inside during this part of the convo. If the Kattes are that unworthy, and they *still* have more favor than he does...

It's easy for Lehndorff to attribute the Kattes getting favor to Fritz *insert eyeroll here*. My Peter, in contrast, internalized that he screwed up bigtime in 1730, and now he's just trying to redeem himself and desperately wanting to know if he succeeded.

And if he encouraged the escape attempt, and Katte died, does that mean Peter is partly to blame? Peter wonders. (Emotions aren't rational, and Peter might well have survivors' guilt second only to Fritz's. Besides, he can tell himself that at least Fritz suffered *too*.)

Peter, it occurred to me, is much more likely to have that profile we talked about in the Fredersdorf and stress convo: the people-pleasing outwardly-gracious dying-inside profile that does lead to stress-related illness. Peter died at age 45, most likely in a civilian role in Berlin. Related?

The only thing stopping me from adopting this as headcanon/fic plot point is that he would probably have then had to have chronic illness leading up to his death, and I kind of want him to have been happier than that. Especially if I want him and Fritz to clear things up 6 years before he died*. That said, he could have had relatively mild "it's the 18th century, who's *really* healthy?" physical symptoms that suddenly turned fatal with lack of proper medical care. 

(Irl, he could have just had bad genes! Caught a bug. Died of some accident. But that's not a *story*.)

* Irl, I suspect what happened was that Peter was an impeccably behaved people pleaser for years on end, Fritz got the message that he wasn't making a bid for power, Fritz started rewarding him with both more money and more responsibilities, Peter and everyone else got the implicit message that he'd either redeemed himself or else Fritz had just had a lot on his plate in the 40s, and Peter was able to relax a little in the 50s. I hope!