If I love someone, it's because of who they are and the interactions I have with them, not their genetics.
Just to be extra clear on my position, when you decide to raise a child (genetically related to you or not), you commit to doing a good job, and that does *not* mean making them vehicles of your wish-fulfillment fantasies.
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Date: 2017-07-08 01:08 am (UTC)Just to be extra clear on my position, when you decide to raise a child (genetically related to you or not), you commit to doing a good job, and that does *not* mean making them vehicles of your wish-fulfillment fantasies.