which also! ouch! not breastfeeding when your breasts are totally primed for it is also painful and also I wonder how many of these women died from mastitis

Wait, which women, the ones who were breastfeeding or the ones who weren't? Because I read your comment as the mothers who weren't, but that doesn't make a lot of sense.

and you're feeding this kid sugar water?? Poor kids :(

Right? Ugh. POOR EVERYBODY.