Ha, fair enough. ...this made me realize that part of my issue seems to be possibly gender-related? Like, it would be totally in character for me to write something like that to my sister (if we had another sibling that I was called in to help with their sex life *shudder*) but it's kind of hard for me to imagine most of the guys I know doing something like that, heh. Then again, perhaps my imagination is just not good enough!

Awwww, that is a really sweet note about Joseph and MA. (And I don't disagree with it.)