Yeah, I guess I've never been in that kind of situation -- that being said, I am coming from a position of having to basically take notes on things like this based on what other people say is good... and it occurs to me that (along with all my other advantages, which are major) I have the internet to tell me things like ring theory. (Course, Fritz would probaly have said that he was in the inner ring, and though he's not exactly wrong...)
Re: Fritz: Worst condolence letter writer ever?