(Is it mean of me that I kind of hope she actually did do the letter thing on purpose?)

No, because I love Fritz with a deep and unreasonable love that is totally dependent on him being safely long dead, and even *I* hope she did it on purpose.

Not because being insensitive back at people is a good way of getting them to be less insensitive in future, but since that ship has sailed, just...EC, you're allowed to have your moment here, and this is coming from a non-fan of you.